By now most
of you have caught on to the fact that I like to plan things out. I like being
prepared. Sure, I can do spur of the moment…
sometimes, if the Moon is in the right sign. No, seriously, I can be spontaneous on some
events, but a whole month of them?
Welcome to
our July.
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We have by
way of events beyond our control had to be adaptable, flexible.
We have had to look for the silver lining as
our 4th of July party plans were squashed by a no burn- no fireworks
of any kind ordinance.
We had to buck up when our road trip was put
off because my husband, who was already b-u-s-y was asked to fill in for
another person.
We made
peace with staying put and swimming, until our pool grew some nasty algae and
needed to be treated with some major chemicals.
We
completely understood when our sitter cancelled the night before our special
date night at a lovely restaurant. Yes, reservations were required and I
cancelled them without complaint.
Some would
say this was a streak of bad luck, but I say July was a flexibility test. And I’m happy to say, we all passed with
flying colors. Who needs Plan A’s all the time? They are so boring, having
every detail planned out.
I have
watched with admiration and love as our daughters have taken all of this is
stride and still come out happy. A
little disappointed here and there, but always game for one of our Plan B’s.
They even came up with some stellar and fun ideas on their own.
They
reminded me that a little spontaneity is a very good thing.
I hope your
July has been all you hoped and planned for, but if not, look around for a Plan
B. Ask your kids/friends/family for input. I bet you
will have fun too!